Danni's Blog

There’s a colour test on the internets that I’ve done. These are my results, along with how I feel about them. The link to the test is here.

Your Existing Situation

“Searching for a close bond with others which are accepting and kind. Needs a safe, peaceful atmosphere.”

I’m not really searching for a close bond with others beyond what I already have, so that’s not accurate. I do need a safe, peaceful atmosphere though.

Your Stress Sources

“Feels unappreciated and in an unpleasant position. Needs personal recognition and the respect of others, since she has not been about to find partners who value the same things she does. she holds back her emotions and is unable to give fully of himself, but lasting isolation makes her want to change those ways and surrender to her deep urges. Giving in to her natural instincts and urges is a sign of weakness, so feeling this way makes her weak and irritable. Fighting these urges makes her feel stronger, as if she can take on anything that comes her way. Longs to be valued as an important associate and admired for her personal qualities.”

Some of this is true, but most of it doesn’t feel right to me. Giving in to my instincts and urges is a sign of weakness in me (but only me) and it does make me feel weak and irritable. The rest isn’t so true at the moment.

“Demanding and picky in her relationships, but careful not to bring out conflict or disagreements and this may decrease her chances of achieving her goals and ideas.”

Okay, this is pretty true, though I try not to be demanding

Current situations force her into compromise and placing her own hopes and desires on hold for the time being.

Yes, yes, yes.

Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. she is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity.

Yes…

“Willing to become emotionally involved, but is demanding and picky when choosing a partner. Is careful not to bring out conflict or disagreements as this may decrease her chances of achieving her goals and ideas.”

Well, yes. I include my partner in types of relationships.

Your Desired Objective

“Longs for tenderness and for a feeling of acceptance from a partner. Appreciates things that are beautiful, pleasing to the eye, and stylish.”

The first is true. The second, well, I like pretty things, but I’m not so sure about stylish

Your Actual Problem

Lack of energy leaves her unnoticed to pursue further activities or demands placed on her. she feels powerless which leaves her agitated and depressed. Tries to escape from her struggles by searching for peaceful and restful conditions in which to relax and recover in an atmosphere full of security.

This is scarily true.

Your Actual Problem #2

“Wants to be valued and respected, seeks a close and peaceful relationship with a shared respect of each other.”

This is true. I’m lucky to have it